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Day 172: Guest Blog

I’m at a close gathering of friends, among these good friends are the dads with a new baby but we are still hanging like its normal fun times while the baby swings and sleeps. Here’s what the friends have to say:

I love that there is a baby in a swing and we are all having family good times with that baby in the room. Love, Uncle Danny

Emily sings vibrato. Wolves sing emotional charged howls. Ian sings energy. Baby boy sings hope. I sing gratitude. Love Father Chad

Dub Step. Or is it Dob Step? House or drum and bass? Bass (as in the fish with gills) or bass (do you like bass? All your base are belong to us). They are writing the blog now. This is the time to hang out and drink. All your bass are belong to us. We are hanging out. This is our St. Patrick’s Day. Love, Emily.

I went to raves can we be clear. He went to like a rave. Earn it. Dream it. Love it. Spice. John said no. Imam the black model. He is a 3 or 4 on the Kinsey scale. Kinsey autocorrect I need you to run a couple errands for me. But chad I mean come on what kind of raves were these. I was in the desert with the spirit and the heart and the souls and then in 83 he was a closet heterosexual. The dark matter and the fractal is what is important. All of you are talking about partnering with a man or woman it’s because I’m a dad now and women have a deep sexual understanding. You are using the word choose. Doob step. Peter Pan. Rick cool guy. Rick cool juice.

So, there’s so much being talked about, but I love my friends and we talk about any and everything. And anyone that can’t handle it you know where to go!
B Money

Do you remember the 21st night of September?
Love was changing the minds of pretenders
While chasing the clouds away
-CRV

Our hearts were ringing

Omg. I love my friends. And I’m sorry if this makes no sense.

Day 163: Hopleaf

Hopleaf is a Belgian eatery with unique dishes like duck reuben, mussels and fries and, my favorite, the CB & J. That’s cashew butter, fig jam and raclette cheese on fried bread. On a normal night, it’s pretty darn good. After a day of feeling sick but going to six meetings anyway, it’s downright DELICIOUS. Thanks Hopleaf (and the hubs and C and B) for a chill night after a long day. Very fun.

Day 128: Chalkboard Wall

That black wall is officially a chalkboard. After waiting the mandatory three days, the hubs and I tested it tonight.

A good friend suggested we hang frames on the wall to break it up visually and organize info. I love this idea but currently do not have any extra frames to put up. So I drew one of my own and them attempted to draw a chevron heart inside.

I’m not very good at drawing but it was fun! Now anyone who comes over must put their mark on our new board. I’m looking at you, Letterform!

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Day 99: Grateful

Well 2013 began totally unexpectedly. This morning around 9am, the hubs and I were in bed discussing whether or not our house guests, who got in after 4am would still want to go to brunch at 10am given their late return. The hubs decided to go check with them. He opened the door, stopped, turned to me and said, “Hold on, I think there might be a fire.”

Above us we heard stamping and alarms, the hubs came back in the room and said, “There’s smoke.” Someone banged loudly on our door. Our whole apartment sprang to action; shoes, coats, phones. In my scramble to put something on my feet, I looked towards the kitchen and saw light grey smoke curling in the air. Our house guests, the hubs (who had leashed Elphie) and I headed out the door. Our neighbor’s door was wide open, her apartment full of smoke. We all ran (as best we could) down the two flights of stairs, encountering more neighbors, trying to cover our mouths from all the smoke. A fireman passed us going up, “Where’s the furnace?” I don’t know if anyone answered him. We all have individual furnaces in our units.

By the time we got outside, there were five fire trucks and one ambulance in front of our building. A ladder was already extended from one truck to the top of our building. We figured later that was in case the fire was on a lower level and they needed to save people from the top floors. Outside, neighbors gravitated toward each other on the sidewalks. Everyone was worried and coughing. We told the story of what happened from our various perspectives. I learned that the couple right below us have two cats and a dog, though only one cat was willing to get in to the carrier and be removed from the apartment. I saw another couple with a very small baby who I had no idea lived in our building. When it got too cold, we all migrated in the neighboring convenience store to wait.

When I got tired of standing, the hubs, Elphie, our house guests and I walked to the house guests’ car. We sat and talked it over some more, cancelled our brunch reservations and wondered what was happening in our building. The hubs decided to go check. We had been out of our apartment for maybe half an hour to forty-five minutes at this point, but he called me moments later saying come back.

We had been given the all clear. One of the furnaces in a lower unit had caught fire but luckily, it did not spread. We did not see the owners nor the interior of their unit but our next door neighbor, whose unit is directly above theirs, had a floor covered in soot. The only damage to our home was the door. Out of instinct, the hubs locked it on his way out, so the firemen had to break the lock to get in and check our furnace and the rest of the house. Luckily, they only broke the top lock so we can still use the bottom lock while we wait to get the whole door replaced.

Getting out of the building through all the smoke was the scariest part. I was going down first and lost sight of the hubs and Elphie at one point, but there was a line of people trying to get down so I had to just keep going. Then, outside, so many people just kept coughing, myself included, but the paramedics on site assured us that was normal. When we were waiting in the car, I thought about our home and our stuff and our downstairs neighbors’ cat and what if it was all gone when we went back. I wondered who we would call, where would we go, and what we would do.

But then I reminded myself, and this was not a revelation, that we have amazing families, generous friends and each other (and Elphie). If we started 2013 with nothing, we would be ok. More than ok, fine, good, secure, and loved. Our home is ok, and we are good, secure and loved. Grateful is a good way to start the year.

Day 96: Forgotten

Day 96 is the day I forgot to post. I had a kind of roller coaster day; feeling sick, going to work anyway, feeling better, going out after work and, ending the day, feeling sick again. I suppose it was fun forgetting to post. Forgetting to make fun, just having it. Except that those great moments were mixed in with feeling bad. Day 97 is a new day though. And even though it may be off to a rough start (more on that later), it is a day about which I will certainly remember to post.