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Day 125: Booked It

The hubs and I booked our European getaway! This afternoon was devoted to cutting our costs since what we originally budgeted was being spent too quickly. This took a lot of research that is definitely not over, but we were able to cut our airfare costs by $1,000. We also saved on train fare between cities.

First, the airfare. We were not married to a specific itinerary so we combed the internet for various combinations of flights. Now, one thing I should probably admit is that I am a TERRIBLE flyer, so I have to have non-stop flights. It’s just something I will not compromise on. We were looking to fly into one city and out of another, which is what was making it so expensive. However, because we got married in another country last year and we have a miles credit card, we found we could actually use miles for one roundtrip, nonstop ticket from Chicago to London on United. We had to purchase our two tickets separately, one with miles and one on a card, but we then called United to link the tickets together. That way we won’t get separated if they decide to start moving seats around, though we did pay a little extra to upgrade to Economy Plus. I mean, it is an 8-9 hour flight.

This presented the problem of, how are we going to travel to a few cities when we have to start and end in the same place? So, I spent quite some time on Rail Europe, looking at maps and trying different train paths/combinations. We settled on a combination of four cities. Then it took comparing the price differences from city to city, day to day, and train company to train company. (I have a serious amount of train times/prices/routes written in a little notebook right now). Eurostar allows you to set up multiple cities in a path and compare Eurostar prices to Thalys prices (the two main train companies in the area we were looking).

Between Paris, Amsterdam and Brussels, the cheapest city to get to from London via train is Brussels. From there, we found the easiest/cheapest route–accounting for a certain number of nights in each city and how much we want to spend on hotels–is Brussels to Amsterdam, Amsterdam to Paris, and Paris back to London. This includes two cities I’ve been to (London and Paris) and two I haven’t (Brussels and Amsterdam). And the hubs, while very well traveled in other continents, has not been to any. We’ll spend one night in London after our arrival and then off to Brussels. Three nights there, two in Amsterdam, two in Paris and two more in London before heading back to the U.S.

A few things about this:

1. Train tickets are more affordable if you buy them in advance in a locked schedule (meaning no changing your mind last minute). While this does put some pressure on travelers to “get there on time,” the savings are quite significant. Many flexible tickets are at least $30 more per person, and when you are taking four trains, that adds up.

2. Train tickets are often cheaper from Eurostar or Thalys themselves so after I compared everything on Rail Europe, I actually purchased on their websites. Eurostar is very user friendly while Thalys is a bit more antiquated and only takes PayPal from the U.S.

3. This may seem like a lot in ten days, but–and if you’ve traveled to Europe you know–the cities are so close together and the train stations are in the actual cities, often very close to the center of town. The longest train we have is three and a half hours, and that’s from Amsterdam to Paris. The other three are all two hours or less. Good for napping and making a plan of attack for the next city!

4. Yes, I am worried about getting tired and not being able to walk as much as I would like. The hubs and I are both fully aware that we may have some early nights, late mornings, and days spent sitting in cafes. I will have to lug around medicine and limit my alcohol consumption. BUT I do not want to let all that stop me from going on what promises to be an amazing trip.

5. I love a good itinerary.

Probably my favorite part about how the trip works out is that on our actual one-year wedding anniversary, we will wake up in Paris and go to sleep in London. If that’s not romantic, I don’t know what is.

Now, we have to pick hotels and prioritize everything we want to do!

 

Day 124: Painting the Walls Black

Our entryway is narrow and white. We have an old, ugly bookshelf that holds mail, photos and Elphie’s personal items and a mat for shoes. This hall also has the furnace closet and a coat closet, so there is not much we can change about the space and how it works. Other than paint a chalkboard wall!

One small wall sticks out a little and thus is the perfect spot for updates from the dog walker, cute loves notes, inside jokes and maybe a doodle or two. The hubs is very kind and offered to do it all himself so that I would not over-exert myself. But I really wanted to paint some (you can see the proof below) and it probably doesn’t count as my fun thing if I don’t participate. We painted the first and second coats very easily and now just have to wait three days before we can write on it.

I’m wondering if it might also be cute to get some wood cut and frame it out like a picture…thoughts?

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Day 120: Intentionally Indoors

I have not left the house today. In fact, I have been home for the last 28 hours and intend to be home for another 11 before going anywhere. This morning I posted a photo to Facebook of my weather app telling me it was ZERO degrees outside. ZERO. In that moment, I decided, “I am not leaving the house today. And it is going to be super fun.”

While most of my day was spent on the computer with work emails, life emails, bill paying, editing a personal statement for a friend, etc. I also managed to go through all my mail, swiffer the floors, play with Elphie, look through old Pottery Barn catalogues, try on new clothes that came in the mail, eat home made tacos with the hubs and enjoy an hour of uninterrupted Kardashian Television. Many of these things could be fun in and of themselves, but, for today, it is the combination of indoor activities and deciding to stay home that is fun. I literally was outside for about 30 seconds to let Elphie go potty and yet I accomplished so much.

I also took a moment to enjoy intentionally staying in as opposed to being forced to stay in. I’ve endured many stretches of multiple days inside due to illness or pain without finding the fun in it. Today, even though I never left the house, I felt free, active and productive.

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Day 119: Tahitian Vanilla

Now that I work on Mondays, I’m trying to decide if I should switch Guilty Pleasure Monday to Sunday. On one hand, I was busy and barely noticed the headache and tiredness creeping in after taking methotrexate. Also, now that I have weekends free, I don’t want to lose one of those open days. On the other hand, I need to maintain my focus at work and really I normally rest on Sundays (read watch football) anyway.

But I haven’t decided yet so, for now, I will continue the guilty pleasures on Mondays. Today it’s treating myself to these delicious Tahitian Vanilla Caramels from Trader Joes. They come in small packages, several dark chocolate balls with the vanilla caramels inside. Delicious. Perfect for a little pick me up at the end of a busy day.

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Day 114: Beginnings

I started a new job today! My title is Development Associate, and while some of my work will be in individual campaigns, most of my job is grant writing. I’m going to make money writing. I never imagined that would be the case but am so pleased that it is.

My hours are part time, some in the office and some at home for writing, which works so well for me, especially managing my RA. I can easily schedule doctor appointments and can write from home on days when I’m not feeling up to going out. It also means that I can stay on in my current position two days per week to help out during a particularly busy time.

In order for this set up to function well, I have to have a laptop to take to work, home and anywhere else I might want to write. This was my special, secret present that necessitated a trip to the Apple Store. I’m writing this post on a MacBook Air. It is so light, so cute and I have everything synched to keep me efficient.

I’m very excited about this change, about beginning a new career path, about working in smaller theater company, about writing, about free weekends, about meeting new people, about developing my skills, and about raising money for valuable programs and projects that bring theater to youth and underserved communities.